Wow, what an awesome conclusion! Unexpected and delightful :)
My ex-husband said very, very similar things to those that your ex said here! It’s shocking how similar. I always felt like that quality was the worst one that I could possibly have.
But your conclusion that we need to be mouldable in regards to our own growth & not other people’s expectations is revolutionary for me. Thank you so much!
I won’t dislike that quality in myself anymore but instead, channel it for my own growth & good :D