Oh my dear, all the hugs to you! The way that those people treated you is horrible, horrible and I do avoid calling myself a Christian exactly because of things like this.
I love God desperately. I love people desperately and try to live that out by serving & helping as best I can. Which means lots of apologies for the stupid things that I say sometimes haha.
Thank you for being SO brave to write this. I hope it infuriates these “Christians” so that they might realize the blackness in their hearts and actions.
Again, I am so sorry that you went through this and wish I could kick these people in the teeth for you.