I gained weight and didn’t take care of myself for years because men kept telling me that I was so pretty that they had to sexually force themselves on me. Again, that conservative church “it’s your fault for being seductive” ploy.

What can you do when the church elders hit on you? You just force a terrified smile and go to great lengths to avoid being tempted because no one will believe you over them anyway.

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